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How vain it is to sit down to write when you
have not stood up to live.
― Henry David Thoreau

Through the years, I have dealt with many would-be writers. I’ve also had the opportunity to deal with a few very successful writers. Success, of course, is a vague term. Most writers view success in terms of their real or perceived audience. Many writers reach literally millions of people without collecting any money. A writer who writes to achieve fame or fortune will receive neither. A writer who writes because of an inner drive that can be satisfied no other way will view success in terms other than fame or fortune.

Would-be writers make a lot of assumptions. Here are five mistaken ones.

  1. If I write it, they will buy. Writing is about ten percent of the process. The other ninety percent is marketing. If you don’t develop a following, publishers won’t come knocking. If you don’t develop a following, self-publishing won’t work. How you publish is insignificant if you aren’t marketing yourself.
  2. I need thousands of dollars to get my writing career started. That’s just an excuse people use to justify their procrastination. You can write and self-publish without spending a penny.
  3. I need connections in the publishing industry before I can’t publish. I hate to break it to you, but the big publishers aren’t looking for you and me. The publishers that pursue you will offer publishing opportunities that require you to pay them. RUN! Don’t worry about connecting with a publisher. Focus on connecting with your audience.
  4. I can write in my spare time. You don’t have any spare time, therefore, you won’t write. You must make time to write everyday. Set a goal for writing 500 words a day. In a few months, you’ll have a book.
  5. Blogging isn’t writing. Wow. Don’t tell that to Seth Godin, Michael Hyatt, Dan Miller, or Joshua Becker. Many finished books started as blogs.

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Does it feel like your life is going in circles? Welcome to the club. Researchers tell us that the average American adult changes jobs every 27 months. Why? Take a look at the diagram above and you’ll understand.

We begin new adventures with optimism. We believe this job or situation will be better than the last. The commute is shorter, hours are better, pay is increased, or benefits are superior. Something about this opportunity leads us to a state of optimism.

The fires of optimism meet the cold water of reality. OK, so coworkers don’t welcome your ideas, supervisors really don’t need your input, the environment feels tense and oppressive. There is either a rash of alien abductions or your new employer doesn’t have a problem disposing of employees. This place is starting to look a lot like the last place.

Reality turns optimism into frustration. What were you thinking when you accepted this opportunity? How could you be so wrong? You start watching the clock, doing the bare minimum, and exclaiming, “It’s just a job.”

Long-term frustration leads to abandonment. You update your resume and begin looking for a new opportunity with an organization that will really be different. You try to hang on, but each day gets tougher. You wait to hear from someone at the “perfect” situation. Or, you quit. Either way, you abandon the dreams you had when you started and, if all goes as planned, you get the phone call and accept the new opportunity and…

The cycle starts all over!

Each cycle represents 24-30 months of your life. Do that five times and you will invest 10-12 years going in circles. Is this a recipe for a life that matters or are you getting dizzy?

The diagram above comes from my book, Live Your Why. Though it’s not a book designed to help you find a better job, your job search will be more focused when you understand your purpose as it is expressed through your personality, passions, and present reality. My goal is to help you discover your God-given purpose in life and then set you free to pursue it. When you do, the lines between work and play will blur. You’ll live a life that inspires others.

Do you want to live your life waiting to quit doing something you hate or do you want to love your life? You get to choose. Think about it!

In twenty-five words or less, state your purpose in life. Are you loving life or living to quit?

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